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Should you become an entrepreneur?

August 16, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

One of my favorite blogs (actually I just discovered it this week — but it’s quickly getting star status for me) is Pamela Slim’s, Escape from Cubicle Nation.  With a name like that, how could it not grab me?

One of her posts was, “Top 10 Reasons Not to Become an Entrepreneur”.   Before you click to read it, I have to add 3 more for the chronically ill!  Notice I don’t use her terrific graphics but the message is there just the same.

SO, all 10 she cites, and then:

11. Make sure that you have a business idea that people know they need and that this is something you care about putting all energy into  (or that job you left is going to be looking all too good, too soon.)  And, when you’ve been under or unemployed because of chronic illness, it’s hard to take the time it takes to field test your idea.
12. Ask yourself if you are someone who likes working alone for long periods of time because that’s what it’s going to take.  It can easily feel like you’d do anything rather than have to answer to others on days you don’t feel well.  But on the other hand, there’s a lot to be said for seeing a friendly face and having to show up someplace when you don’t feel so hot.

13.  Are you cut out for this?  It can be hard enough living with a chronic illness.  And it can be very hard being a self employed, entrepreneur — unless it’s your passion.  So check that out.  You want to minimize, not maximize, the stressors.  Sometimes we make decisions and don’t realize that we’re actually jumping from the fat to the fire.
Rosalind

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

"Sick" humor or Affirmations – either can be good for the soul

August 15, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

I love this posting, The top ten worst suggestions commonly given to someone with a chronic illness, on a very fun site, But You Don’t Look Sick. I’m so NOT “funny” (I wish I was though) — but I love when someone can make me laugh. But along the lines of different strokes for differentRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Disease Management: A place for career coaching

August 14, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

Recently, a new industry has emerged that many people are unaware even exists. It’s called disease management and it’s another effort at health care cost containment. These programs are funded by employers (and or their insurance companies) with the intention of reducing the high costs incurred by a small percentage of people. According to TheRead More

Filed Under: Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Dragon, Naturally Speaking. What a tool!

August 12, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

One of my first clients lived with severe pain from thoracic outlet syndrome (TOS) and couldn’t type on a keyboard. While we worked together to create employment for her, she bought Dragon Naturally Speaking Voice Recognition Software. It was a big expense for her (she was living on a disability payments) but she believed (rightlyRead More

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

Kathleen Turner: Rheumatoid Arthritis and still working, girlfriend!

August 10, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

I read that the actress, Kathleen Turner, is directing a play in Williamstown, MA this summer. I’ll bet you didn’t know that Ms. Turner lives with rheumatoid arthritis. I have a hunch that she’s turning towards directing because it might be an easier life for her . And it might be easier for her toRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Working with chronic illness

CAN chronic illness keep you from working?

August 7, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

I get asked this question too often. I say, too often, because it I have a hard time answering it. Can it? Of course it can.  Does it?  Of course it does.  It kept me from working, at times.  But does it have to?   No, I don’t believe so. And that’s the tough part ofRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Working with chronic illness

Weight – Is too much a chronic illness?

August 6, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Should being fat be considered a protected category? Should it be considered a chronic illness? An article in last weekend’s Boston Globe Magazine, Do We Really Need a Law to Protect Fat Workers?, talked about a bill that is being considered by the MA state legislature to protect obese people from discrimination. “… it’s hardRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

The Best Careers in 2006

August 2, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

In today’s The Wall Street Journal Online – Career Journal there’s an article about the “Best Careers in 2006”. The WSJ researchers came up with 8 careers: Curriculum and instructional coordinators High-school special-education teachers Hospital and clinic managers Management consultants and analysts Medical researchers Physical therapists Sales, marketing and advertising managers Social workers, counselors andRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Cold, hot and something in between.

July 31, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

Yikes! I can easily forget what it’s like to be in places where you can’t control the air conditioning. I spend my days in an office — but my office is in my home. I only have to negotiate with my husband and daughters (and our daughters don’t live here very often any more). ForRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Oh, my but you DO look good.

July 30, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 7 Comments

Do you get annoyed when someone tells you how good you look (and you feel like “crap”?) According to one survey (and I’m always skeptic regarding surveys and who/how they’re done), 50% of people with chronic illness say they don’t like to be told they look good. I’ve never felt that way — even whenRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

Some things to think about with an ileostomy.

July 26, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

The summer and humidity, in particular, is tough on us ileostomy folks. My flange (this thing that attaches to my skin) easily gets irritated. I went to a “wound nurse” (that’s what it’s called!) to see if there has been an improvement in the technology over the 10 years since I first got this andRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

Here she is …Mrs. Indiana …. and a girlfriend with lupus

July 24, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Forget the debates. The “bathing suit” contests. The pie dinners. I just wish that we could all get out the vote for her. No. I’m not talking about Hillary. I’m talking about Tara Tate, the newly crowned, Mrs. Indiana, who is going for the national crown of Mrs. America. Tara is OUR HEROINE — she’sRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Talking about it, Young with Health Problems

"Can we talk?" I live with an ileostomy

July 22, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

This week, I had an epiphany. I don’t talk about living with an ileostomy. What made me realize this? My friend and colleague, Jenny Prokopy (Chronicbabe.com), is a freelance writer and was looking for people to interview for a piece that she’s working on for The Phoenix, the magazine of the United Ostomy Association ofRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

The CDC recognizes the "reality" of chronic fatigue syndrome

July 17, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

Hooray. The Center for Disease Control (CDC) is releasing studies showing that chronic fatigue syndrome is a real disease and not just “yuppie flu”. They’re also sponsoring a $6m public awareness campaign about the illness. That’s a start in the right direction toward helping individuals with this disease feel less like they’re “psych cases” orRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Getting older all the time.

July 16, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Summer …. and it finally feels like it in New England. This past weekend was my yearly reunion with childhood friends. We used to call it the White Plains High School Girls weekend – but since we include our spouses, the name doesn’t work anymore. 5 childhood friends (and two were high school sweethearts!) andRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Do you think of yourself as someone who lives with a chronic illness?

July 11, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 10 Comments

Recently, I was in a conversation in which we were talking about how you find information — particularly on the internet.   I asked if she uses such search words as chronic illness or multiple sclerosis (which is what she has).  She said,  “I don’t like to think of myself as having a chronic illness andRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

Power in numbers

July 8, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 7 Comments

There’s been good news about chronic fatigue syndrome lately. Scientists in Australia have identified 25 genes that are linked to CFS. In her blog, Laura talks about this news with the hopeful tone that we all get when we consider the possibility that someday there may be a cure (hey, even treatment options that areRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

How Doctors Think

July 5, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

How do you make a book required reading for anyone who is a patient? (Oh, if only we could.) If you haven’t read How Doctors Think, by Dr. Jerome Groopman, go immediately to your local book store, library (or buy it online at his website.) I wish that I’d had this book when I wasRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

No Greasy Poles, here, thank you.

July 1, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

I’ve done it. I’ve carved a week for a vacation at our place in Gloucester, Massachusetts (home to 5 minutes of fame on YOU Tube for the St Peter’s Festival and the Greasy Pole). Nope, I didn’t see it but I did hear about it and all the locals love it because it brings inRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Working on your own means making decisions alone

June 28, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

This is about the “stuff” you run into running your own business, out of your home, with a full time staff of one. #1. If you haven’t noticed,  allow me to point out that I’ve lost the sidebar on the left of this blog with all the links.  I was trying to put some informationRead More

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

All work and no play can keep a person: chronically sick

June 24, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

This week I’m going to start living my New Year’s resolution. Ok – so I am 6 months late. My resolution? To create a better balance between work and play. Actually, I should have made it: to put play back into my life. Hey, I know it’s not easy to do this — I’ve beenRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Adaptive Athlete of the Year

June 20, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

We never know who will get their 10 minutes of fame.  Sandy Lahmann didn’t expect it when it came.  But last week, she was told that she has been named the Colorado Ski Country USA Adaptive Athlete of the Year from the Colorado Ski Country USA staff.   She gets an all expense paid trip to CopperRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Young with Health Problems

Pain doesn't kill. Or does it?

June 18, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

I didn’t get this written yesterday because the day was filled with Father’s Day. First with my own father (who unfortunately has trouble remembering anything other than, “it isn’t my birthday?”), then with my brother (who had “the best father’s day ever” and the father of my two daughters, my husband. The two of themRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

Acquiring Hope

June 14, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

I’ve lived with the diagnosis of multiple sclerosis since 1980. After having had difficult symptoms for two years, the diagnosis was a big relief, particularly since Iwas told that MS was the best news out of the different diseases that the doctors were thinking about. I think that was the first moment in my lifeRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

How loudly do you talk?

June 12, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

Have you ever noticed that when people talk about chronic illness, the conversation seems to get more hushed, more low key, less energetic.  Multiple sclerosis, lupus, rheumatoid arthritis, FIBROMYALGIA?  When was the last time someone told you they have this and said it loudly and clearly? This weekend I met a neighbor and she wasRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Talking about it

Do you think that chronic illness is affecting how you work?

June 10, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

I get a lot of email from people asking for “help” and, unfortunately, most of it is in areas I have little knowledge. But this one was different. What DJ shared was so spot on and it felt so good to know that she could see some improvement in her situation. With her permission (ofRead More

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

It's only a paper moon

June 7, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

I’m coming up on 10 years since I started my own coaching business. (That’s a celebration there, I think.) Recently, I was interviewed by a local magazine about “being an entrepreneur” and I found myself remembering that time. In retrospect, I can say that this wasn’t something that I just fell into, yet it wasn’tRead More

Filed Under: Starting a business, Working with chronic illness

Headaches can be a real pain

June 6, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

This spring, I’ve had miserable headaches from allergies. I’m noticing that it’s affecting my relationships. Just today, my dog, Iko, looked at me quite angrily when I cut our walk short because every footfall caused ratcheting pain. The pain gets so bad sometimes that only acupuncture (thank you my wellness medical team) gives relief. I’veRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

I'm miserable at work because of chronic illness. Or am I?

June 4, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

If you’re feeling badly about your job — too much to do, not interesting enough stuff to do or you dislike what you do — it’s easy to blame this on living with chronic illness. Do you find yourself thinking, “If only I wasn’t sick, things would be different”. It’s easy to forget that thisRead More

Filed Under: Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Love medicine

May 31, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

A friend, Kelly Packowski (she and her husband have a foundation, The Kelly Packowski Foundation for MS, changing one life at a time), has had a tough spring with multiple sclerosis symptoms and she’s trying a new drug therapy that requires a surgical procedure to put a port-a-cath in her chest. I emailed her toRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Chronic illness . . . it's an isolating experience

May 28, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

I’ve been noticing how I no longer feel as “different”, now that I feel healthy so much of the time. I don’t think it’s just coincidence that I don’t feel as isolated when I’m not symptomatic. But this weekend, I was in my husband’s parents home and the air conditioning didn’t work well. Some roomsRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

When Sitting in the stands is not an option

May 22, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

I’ve invited a Guest, Stephanie,  to post this blog: When I was in my early 30s, I decided that I needed a personal coach. I was constantly drained of energy, in constant pain, and desperate to establish a more meaningful career. I was trying to function at 200% when I was only really at 30%.Read More

Filed Under: Attitude

Tired and can't get no respect

May 20, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

My friend, Janie, is on prednisone to counteract a horrible skin rash from poison ivy. The poison is slowly getting better but she’s finding the prednisone is horrible. At first she couldn’t sleep and now, slowly tapering it, she feels like she’s in a fog, is tired all the time and can’t make it throughRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it

Good news (new MS drug) / not good news (workplace no easier than ever).

May 17, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

In the good news department, Genzyme got the OK for testing a new drug for MS. You ask, what’s good about this? Well, when I hear that a new drug treatment might be available, I’m glad because the more the more the merrier (at least until we get a cure). Nothing stopped the progression ofRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Working with chronic illness

Allergies, coughs and sinus headaches. Can I complain?

May 15, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

The other day, I found myself complaining about my sinus headache from allergies. When I stopped and noticed it, there were 2 things that struck me about this. ONE: I never had allergies until a few years ago and it’s become just one more health/illness thing to get used to. In fact, until a fewRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

A mother's day

May 13, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

This weekend I had the best mother’s day present I could imagine: dinner with my two daughters. My husband had something else to do, so it was just the girls and I having sushi, our favorite thing to do since they were each a pint size. If you’re a parent, you know what I meanRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

I can't find my balance today

May 10, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

I was looking on Amazon for a book to send to a client when I did a search on the term balance and learned that there are 363,917 results! At the top of the list is The Great Balance and Stability Book. I’m not sure what it’s about but it sure is something we’re allRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Working with chronic illness: a place called normal

May 8, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

I write about how important work is for people, particularly for people with chronic illness and most particularly for  women with chronic illness.  Do I know for sure if that’s true?  I guess so (now how’s that for equivocal?)  Okay, I believe so. I haven’t done a research study, but I do have a randomRead More

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

News flash: Neuropathy and bad balance with MS makes it hard to sit in the balcony

May 6, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

The other night, my husband went to the Boston Lyric Opera’s production of the Marriage of Figaro. I was so excited that Jake wanted to go ( a “Deadhead” — he’s a recent convert to “serious music”, since listening to Robert Greenberg’s lecture series, How to Listen to and Understand Great Music). But, after weRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Multiple sclerosis simulator – machines built for empathy

May 4, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

Huh? A machine that can help people feel MS symptoms? Will wonders never cease? Apparently, Biogen Idec (maker of Avonex, the MS drug I take) has created a simulator of the MS experience. The article in The Boston Globe said that the pharmaceutical is trying to convince neurologists that their patients need drug therapy byRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Social Security Disability Benefits – too few benefit

May 2, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

When I was 43, with MS and brutal ulcerative colitis, I had to leave my job teaching college because the stool running down my legs and my foggy brain and fevers made it impossible to stand in front of a group of people. I was lucky to get SSDI on the first go around andRead More

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

"Focusing" on chronic pain

April 29, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Those who know me and/or work with me know that in the past year I have become completely enamored with the power of focusing. Not just the book, for sure, but the practice itself.  I believe that this technique has tremendous potential for those of us who live with chronic health challenges.  Last week, AnnRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Chronic illness is a work & family issue

April 26, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

This morning, I went to a meeting of the Association for Career Professionals – Boston to hear the executive director, Brad Harrington, of Boston College Carroll School of Management, Center for Work & Family, talk about the Protean Career. Huh? Well for those not up to date on career theory, this is a model thatRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Crohn's Disease symptoms threw me off track for 13 years

April 24, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

Last week I was talking to one of the most trusted members of my personal support team, Janet. I think of her as my spiritual coach; it’s a generic term for the role she’s played on my road to health and healing. She’s intuitive, she’s tuned in, she’s wise and also very down to earth.Read More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

It sure ain't easy (making decisions)

April 22, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

I’m writing a book with Joan, Keep Working Girlfriend: Women, Work & Chronic Illness (yup the title of the blog). From the first written words, I’ve been engaged in this internal debate about whether to peddle it to a publisher or to “self publish”. I won’t bore you with the details — let me justRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

There's no such thing as safe (just ask someone living with chronic illness).

April 19, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Everyone is commenting on the Virginia Tech shootings (in the media and the blogs) and I haven’t had anything new to say. Until today, when the woman who cuts my hair, G., referred to the news, saying, “How horrible. You send your kid to school and you think he/she will be safe. Only to findRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Funny, I'd never know you have chronic illness by looking at you.

April 17, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

I feel lucky.  I always struggled with that moment when I felt that I had to say to someone I’d just met that I have disabilities from chronic illnesses.  I mean, what’s the right time?  When a new friend asks me if I can attend an event outside on a 100 degree day? Maybe it’sRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it

Chronic illness – do you know how much is too much?

April 16, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

All of my life, I was a morning person. I didn’t pull “all-nighters” in college –I was probably the only one on campus getting out of bed at 6:00am.  But one result of living with chronic illness all these years is that I need a lot of sleep.  Yet, when I couldn’t drag myself outRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Working with chronic illness

The little train that could

April 13, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

Okay. I could do this. A trip to visit my daughters in NYC for less than 24 hours. I’m finally healthy these days and there’s a good reason to go and no good reason not to go. But, for most of their lives, I was the mom who didn’t attend events unless I had toRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness

Working with chronic illness – it's a WORKPLACE issue

April 9, 2007 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

I’ve had some emails about my last post in which I referred to cancer as a chronic illness. The gist of these emails was that some people think that cancer gets “too much attention” both in funding and in the press. Now that might not be a politically correct statement and some might even sayRead More

Filed Under: Working with chronic illness

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