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Are you ready for the elephant in the room?

May 13, 2010 by Rosalind Joffe 20 Comments

This month’s  career collective bloggers question is:  “What should job seekers do now to prepare for interviews?”   Scroll down for thoughtful ideas and useful tips from my fellow bloggers.


MY FANTASY: With every chronic illness diagnosis comes a toolkit filled with all you need to prepare for the unpredictable  (more on this in my post,   “Unpredictable getting to you?”).    But, whether you’re dealing with chronic health issues or not,  you can’t predict when the opportunity for the big  interview will come. What will it take to be prepared so your best possible self shows up when this happens?

You might ask yourself: What does being prepared for a job interview mean to me?

I had a client who thought she was prepared.  She’d never had trouble finding work before.  Even in a bad economy, she expected unemployment would be short.     She had her interview clothes  (both a suit and a pants/sweater version in winter and summer material!) set aside just for this.    She updated her resume weekly with any pertinent activities.  She contacted her references regularly to make sure they were current and used social media and her networks.

Nine months of looking and she hadn’t gotten a second interview.  But she stayed hopeful.  She felt as prepared as she could be  — until the interview that showed her the holes in her prep.

This interview came through a colleague from her last job.  As they talked, she was stunned when she realized that the person interviewing her knew that she had a chronic illness.  Nothing was said, but she felt sure about it and was painfully aware of her own awful discomfort.  Although her illness had not been a factor in her current unemployment,  she froze thinking there was an “elephant in the room”.

She knew how to prepare for an interview as her “old/ healthy self”.  But she had ignored  illness as a factor in this job hunt and this was sabotaging her efforts.

The idea of a toolbox is really a joke– which is why I call it fantasy.  Wouldn’t it be nice if life were so neat?   I wish I could create a box filled with tools you could pull out when you need them.  I’m sure it would make me rich.  But there are skills you can develop.

In this case, my client needed to address her fears.  She probably would have benefited from an “internal conversation” with herself  as described in this post,  Is there an elephant in the room: handling difficult conversations — (scroll to Part One, Internal conversation).  That would have helped her to know what she didn’t want to face.

What have you learned about preparing for the job interview or for what life throws your way?

CAREERCOLLECTIVE BLOGGERS:

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Sit Down and Panic. The Interview is Yours @GayleHoward

How to Stand Out in a Job Interview @heathermundell

Avoid These Reference Mistakes @DawnBugni

Unspoken Secrets of Job Interviewing Prep: How Your Nonverbal Presentation and Behaviors Impact the Impression You Make @KatCareerGal

Prep for Interviews Now: Snuff out the Elephant in the Room Later! @chandlee << not working yet

What Should Job Seekers Do Now to Prepare for an Interview @erinkennedycprw

Take a Ride in the Elevator Before You Interview @barbarasafani

Are You Ready for the Elephant in the Room? @WorkWithIllness

“Tell Me About Yourself” (Oh, Yikes!), @KCCareerCoach

The job interview as a shared narrative @WalterAkana

Prepare your references for job search success @Keppie_Careers

No Pain No Gain In Job Search and Interview Prep @ValueIntoWords

Job searching? Take a cue from the Boy Scouts @LaurieBerenson

Preparing for Career Success Starts with Interviewing the Employers @JobHuntOrg

Filed Under: Job hunting, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

You can lose insurance benefits because you didn't disclose

March 18, 2010 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

Since hanging my shingle as a “chronic illness career coach”, the question I get asked most often is:   “Should I disclose my illness when interviewing for a job?” Naturally, as a coach,  I have more questions than answers.  But there is one guideline I’ve found is worth following: If  symptoms get in the  way ofRead More

Filed Under: BOOK - Women Work and Autoimmune Disease, Job hunting, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

What's the problem with hiding illness at work?

March 10, 2010 by Rosalind Joffe 8 Comments

Phyl Rubin is talking but not about furniture. Phyl and Bernie  own a New England furniture store chain.  No, Phyl is talking about a secret she’s kept for 40 years:  living with multiple sclerosis. 40 years of silence?  Why?  She didn’t have to worry about losing her job or a demotion.  Did she think itRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Advice you didn't ask for. What's your response?

March 3, 2010 by Rosalind Joffe 13 Comments

Chronic illness, complicated as it is, leaves many searching for a simple answer. Lately, a tantalizing headline has gotten much  press in the social media ‘disease’ community (yes, I’m on  twitter and you can tweet me @WorkWithIllness): “Exercise can Quiet Anxiety that Comes With Illness”. Help me, please.  What’s the news here?   That people whoRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Are you looking for support at work?

January 27, 2010 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

Living with chronic illness can leave even the toughest person feeling vulnerable.  You just wish that other people could “get it”, don’t you? I know from personal experience how hard this is in a marriage  (How a Marriage Survives When One Person Gets Sick, MORE Magazine) .  And marriage is all about the relationship,  whereRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Job hunting, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Misery loves company

December 1, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 7 Comments

When I was young and the only one I knew with bad health, I felt like the rotten apple in a bowl of healthy fruit.  It didn’t matter where I was —  at work, with family or with friends.  No one could relate.  I worried that my “bruises”  made me stand out and  unappealing. ButRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Young with Health Problems

Conducting life, work and illness

October 5, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 8 Comments

What happens if you’re a world class conductor and health problems prevent you from doing your job? James Levine, conductor of the Boston Symphony and the New York Metropolitan Opera is finding that out.   He’s missed opening performances — and an indeterminate number hereafter — for surgery on a herniated disc. And this isn’t theRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

At Work: What to say and when living with chronic illness

September 22, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

Take a minute to ask someone, anyone:  “Do you know what the Americans with Disabilities Act is?”   Most likely you’ll hear Yes. Now ask,  “What does the ADA do?” Maybe you’ll hear that  it protects people with disabilities from discrimination.  Funny how many people, with and without disabilities, know about this Act but don’tRead More

Filed Under: BOOK - Women Work and Autoimmune Disease, Career Development, Job hunting, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Stress, Chronic Illness and You

September 16, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

Last night, after “unplugging” for two weeks on vacation, I struggled to adapt to a 7 hours time difference as I made dinner.  Suddenly, a light bulb went off and I remembered that I had to be on a conference call in 5 minutes.  Rushing to finish, I reached for the sugar to add toRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

When Chronic Illness and Marriage Collide

August 24, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 21 Comments

The first sign that I didn’t have a healthy body came in my mid 20’s. I developed  numbness in my fingers.  My boyfriend, Jake, a medical student, was  there  when I went for a myelogram, a very uncomfortable test.  A few months later, when I developed the  first of hundreds of urinary infections, he pickedRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Young with Health Problems

Thanks, Remdog, for talking about depression

August 18, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

I’m delighted.  Last week, beloved Boston Red Sox commentator,  Jerry (“Remdog”) Remy spoke “on air” about living with chronic illness. Explaining to Boston fans that lung cancer (treated last fall) was tough,  he said it’s depression that’s keeping him from working since April. What followed was a frank a description about what it’s like toRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Job Interviews and Illness Disclosure

August 11, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 12 Comments

FYI  – If you tried to “comment” recently and couldn’t, that’s fixed now! Two chronic issues for people with chronic illness who are  job interviewing  are: disclosure and employment gaps. In this post, I’ll discuss disclosure.   I’ll cover employment gaps next time. Disclosure centers on 3 big questions: Should I say it? What  shouldRead More

Filed Under: Job hunting, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

What does "help" mean for you?

August 6, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

Does living with chronic illness leave you feeling like no one understands? Feeling alone and misunderstood is  especially painful when it’s your spouse or any member of your family who just doesn’t seem to “get” it. Do you find yourself  muttering, “Why do I  have to explain the same things over and over again?” Or, Read More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

A New Way — living with RA

July 29, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

This week, a unique website, New Way RA,  goes live.  It explores in depth how people living with rheumatoid arthritis, RA, can live a healthy and well-rounded life-style while facing the challenges of this disease. New Way RA is an online talk show.  It’s features Deborah Norville interviewing experts on career, fitness, nutrition, personal relationshipsRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Fibro: Living with disease and the sceptics

June 24, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

When I read a blog post (Fibromyalgia Negative Press) —  citing a newspaper columnist’s remark about people with Fibro who want to collect a government check and pop pills  (Random Nonsense ) —   I thought:  I’m glad I live with multiple sclerosis! After several weeks of deep pain and fatigue, I’m actually grateful toRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

The ADA – friend or foe?

June 8, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

Do you have a job and live with a chronic illness or condition that leaves you unable to do certain activities?  (aka living with disablities?)   Do you believe that you are well aware of your rights given by  the Americans with Disabilities Act? Are you shaking your head, YES? Most likely, you’re misinformed. Just askRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

5 things I want you to know about working while living with a chronic illness

June 4, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Most of us find that other people can be clueless about what it’s like to live with a chronic illness.  It makes sense since this is invisible, unpredictable and often debilitating.  It’s hard enough to explain this to your friends and family. It’s even more difficult to explain to co workers who only know youRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Addressing problems at work when you live with Lupus – or any chronic illness

May 25, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Did you know that May 10 was World Lupus Day?  May is Lupus Awareness Month — and there is also multiple sclerosis month, breast cancer month, etc.? Anyone else think that there’s something odd with the fact that we have to dedicate a day or month to create attention to DISEASE that so many liveRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

What do you do when you have to keep going?

May 6, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

Recently I experienced, yet again, how hard it is to work and live with waxing/waning chronic illness. And this just reinforces why I think that that working is the smartest thing I can do for myself. When we traveled  to California to visit friends, I knew it would tire me. The time change and longRead More

Filed Under: BOOK - Women Work and Autoimmune Disease, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Starting a business, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Your health isn't a sound byte

May 4, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

Have you noticed how often you’re greeted with,  “Hi, how are you?”   (or “Hey, how ya’ doin’?”), depending on the circles you travel in)? Today I counted 18 times so far and it’s only 4:00pm.   I’m working alone and only left the office for one brief errand.  Do you work in an office withRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Calling for Your Voice

April 16, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 1 Comment

It’s way easy to feel lonely and isolated when you live with a chronic illness.  Even if you’re working full time in a job, surrounded by hundreds,  you can feel like you’re on your own little island.  And it’s especially true if you become disabled and unable to work. That’s what I love about theRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Walk for disclosure

April 12, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

Recently, my daughter, Lucy,  a legislative aide to a New York City Council Member, contacted another Council member’s legislative counsel, Q.  When Lucy didn’t hear back after a few days, she contacted another member of his office. Not long after, Lucy got an email from Q explaining why he had been unavailable.  He had beenRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Laid off, New Job and Life with Chronic Illness

April 6, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

In this virtual world so many of us live in, I “met”  fellow traveler, Bernard Farrell, through the vibrant virtual diabetes community. Recently he mentioned on twitter (@BernardF) that he’d gotten a new job.  I didn’t know he was unemployed but saw an opportunity to share his perspective. So, I sent him some questions andRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Health Info, Job hunting, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness, Young with Health Problems

Errors and living with your chronic illness at work

March 30, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 11 Comments

Are you sick of apologizing for things you can’t help? It was a bad morning for Carol (not her real name). The chronic illness (take your pick: colon, migraine headache, muscle fatigue, breathing problems) was horrible. Only able to pay attention to how badly she felt, she made a quick decision to stay home fromRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Looking at the ground from a seated position

March 15, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

“…. you have a whole different world view  from a seated position.  A lot of what I see is on the ground.  Issues of race and color become less substantial when you look at the ground.”   Federal Judge Reginald Lindsay who died this week at age 63 from complications from cancer. Reggie Lindsay was anRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Does rare mean you don't need to know about it?

February 26, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

It’s sad that we need to set a “DAY” aside to recognize something as important as rare diseases (and grandparents, secretaries…). Feb 28 is National Rare Disease Day, NORD, notes one of my favorite bloggers, Laurie Edwards (achronicdose).  She should know.  She lives with rare disease. The goal is small:  Raise public awareness (and thenRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

Self employment, Virtual employment and Being the boss when you live with chronic illness

February 5, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Are you thinking:  it’s got to be easier to work for myself  rather than dragging myself into work every day?  A reader asked me to write about this:  I would really like to see more profiles with people who own their own business like you.  I am so demanding on myself, that when I amRead More

Filed Under: BOOK - Women Work and Autoimmune Disease, Starting a business, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

The Autoimmune Epidemic: Read It

January 14, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

Over the past 10 years, it’s been my personal goal to bring chronic illness and, in particular, autoimmune disease (AD) into conversation and public consciousness.  Having lived with multiple sclerosis and other autoimmune diseases for 30 years, it’s clear to me that the lack of public recognition of these diseases is a big problem. I’mRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it Tagged With: http://www.donnajacksonnakazawa.com/

What gets you through the times of pain/fatigue or just plain, can't do?

January 11, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

I had sinus surgery last Monday. Six days later and I’m very tired and not “myself”. Well, there’s a silver lining. After living with chronic illness for 30 years, I’ve been healthy enough over the past 5 years to develop a baseline for normal. Only if you’ve lived with chronic illness that waxes and wanesRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, BOOK - Women Work and Autoimmune Disease, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it Tagged With: www.boston.com/news/health/articles/2008/03/17/a_sinus_

Will you be a 'contender?

January 8, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

Chronic illness can break your will. It can also show you how resilient you really are. But don’t you think that’s true of any of life’s challenges? “You was my brother, Charley, you shoulda looked out for me a little bit. I coulda been a contender. I coulda been somebody, instead of a bum, whichRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Career Development, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

One Thing I'd Like You to know about Living with a CI

January 1, 2009 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

Many years ago,  I wrote a newsletter article called, 10 Things I Want You To Know about What it’s Like to Live with Chronic Illness and published it for my New Year’s Day edition.  I later included it in my Career Thrive Guidebook,  Make It Happen: the Who, How and What when chronic illness stopsRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

The only thing we have to fear is …. Loss of HOPE

December 25, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

I was at a holiday party and after explaining what I do to someone I’d just met, I got this question: “Aren’t people with chronic illness a depressing bunch to work with – especially around their careers?” Hmm. That took me by surprise. I replied, “No”, not bothering to explain that I have chronic illnesses.Read More

Filed Under: Attitude, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it Tagged With: http://ownyourhealth.wordpress.com/2008/12/15/stories-o

Making molehills out of the chronic illness mountain

December 19, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

FYI – If you subscribe and get this as an email, you can click on the post ‘s title to view online where you can comment, too! VOTE online FOR THIS BLOG in the people’s Health Blogger contest! Scroll down the right sidebar. ********************************************************************** Do you wonder if people are thinking you’re making up yourRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Doctor, doctor, give me the cure

November 30, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

I’ve lived with chronic illnesses for 30+ years. So many illnesses, big and small, and more doctors than I could possibly remember. I’ve coached and written about communicating with your doctors. I thought that I had talking to my doctors down. I thought I knew what to ask and how to get the information I’dRead More

Filed Under: Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it

Disclosure? The big question.

August 28, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

If you live with an invisible chronic illness, you probably find the question: When do I talk about it for the first time? — is on your mind, a lot. That would be true with any relationship but particularly at work – where performance is key. When I wrote the chapter about disclosure for ourRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Invisible but still here

August 25, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 5 Comments

When I became very sick 30 years ago and  the diagnosis was multiple sclerosis, I didn’t have a clue what that meant. But hey, I wasn’t alone. No one else did either. Not much has changed — which is why it’s still chronic illness and not cured and healthy! But one thing I know forRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness Tagged With: http://www.restministries.org/invisibleillness/invisibl

Do you suffer from a Failure to Communicate?

August 8, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

“What we’ve got here is a failure to communicate.” Cool Hand Luke I bet that if you live with a chronic illness you understand what I mean when I say:  The single most difficult issue that I’ve faced living with chronic illness hasn’t been feeling lousy or having pain. It’s been knowing what to sayRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness Tagged With: http://www.fogmagazine.com/to-tell-or-not-to-tell/

Interview with chronic migraineur

July 14, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

For today’s post, I interviewed Diana Lee,  Somebody Heal Me: The Musings of a Chronic Migraineur. Diana’s story of living with pain is typical for many of us who have had life altering chronic illness. She’s taken a highly creative and productive path to address it. FYI: This month’s headache and migraine carnival hosted atRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Talking about it Tagged With: Add new tag, http://somebodyhealme.dianalee.net/

Are you using social media?

July 9, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

(I’m posting late this week because I’ve been struggling with wordpress to get an image in – sometimes this system just locks things out. So frustrating.) You heard it here first: the meteoric rise of social media is the best breakthrough for working people with chronic illness since … the internet.  It saves you timeRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it

Hollywood producer tells her truth

June 15, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

YES!  Lauren Shuler Donner, A -list producer of Pretty in Pink, St. Elmo’s Fire and X-men series among others, lives with Lupus. What do you KNOW? After years of hiding this illness ( as well as breast cancer) , she’s “come out”. “I was afraid no one would hire me, and I also felt itRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Getting to yes is more useful than you might think

June 11, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 2 Comments

If you think that it’s only the adult work world in which a chronically ill person struggles to around being “successful”, read this article (When Schools Punish Sick Children Who Miss School). Kids face the same crap (sorry but it made my blood boil). Here’s an example: A parent wrote that her child completed allRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness, Young with Health Problems Tagged With: http://www.wrightslaw.com/blog; http://shiftingcareers.

Coming Out – Into the spotlight

June 9, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

Occasionally, I interview people about their “story” because I think it would be valuable for you to hear a different take on these issues – other than mine. Today’s guest is Leslie Rott. She is 22 years old and was diagnosed with and is being treated for rheumatoid arthritis (RA) and systemic lupus erythematosus (SLE)Read More

Filed Under: Attitude, Career Development, Health Info, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness, Young with Health Problems

Chronic illness isn't sexy

June 4, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

There is nothing sexy or headline-making about chronic illness. It rarely kills a person — but it sure can curtail a life. Ted Kennedy was presented with what seemed liked larger than life issues that forced him to make quick decisions and take risks. All the more inspiring. And Kennedy, as do so many celebritiesRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Career Development, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working with chronic illness

Chronic illness means frequently weighing the pros and cons

June 2, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 6 Comments

This past weekend, my husband’s family gathered at our house for his youngest brother’s (there are 4 “boys”) graduation (at 44!) from U Mass Medical School (Worcester, MA). A big deal, no? But it’s late Spring and as is typical for me, multiple sclerosis (MS) symptoms are flaring, with some pain and some fatigue.  NotRead More

Filed Under: Career Development, Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Noticing Grumpy

May 14, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

My allergies symptoms are painful.  So when I saw this headline, “Do allergy symptoms make you grumpy?”, I almost laughed out loud (only laughing hurt my sinuses) .  HOORAY!  I’m  not alone! That just happened to be Mother’s day.  Both my daughters had called, I’d called my mother and mother-in-law  and exchanged loving motherly stuffRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Talking about it

Sometimes it's not really about when you disclose your chronic illness.

May 7, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 4 Comments

How do you know when it’s time to tell your boss about your chronic illness? I got this question in my email today (I added the bold): “At what point, if ever, do I need to tell my employer I have a chronic illness? In the past, I’ve always gone with the philosophy of notRead More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Are you spreading seeds when you job hunt

April 27, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

QUESTION: What do a farmer and a job hunting person have in common? ANSWER: They both have to spread more seeds than they can ever use in the hope that some will sprout. A client, L, emailed me asking my opinion if she should go to a career expo, sponsored by Women for Hire. LRead More

Filed Under: Job hunting, Talking about it

It's a chronic illness (stupid). Are YOU clear?

April 17, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

In the past few weeks, I’ve “traveled” out of town twice: a short business trip and a longer vacation. And again I was reminded of my disabilities and their affect on what I do and how I do it. The take away message? Gotta’ be clear with myself about what I can and can’t doRead More

Filed Under: Musings on LIfe with Chronic Illness, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

When it's time to take charge of your body and your schedule

March 6, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe 3 Comments

What do you do when you see “it” coming: Continue to push too hard and you could bring on an “attack” or a “flare” — but your team or client is relying on you to keep going?  Ring any bells? My client, P, lives with some devastating diseases, including hypothyroidism, Addison’s disease, and neurally mediatedRead More

Filed Under: Attitude, Health Info, Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

Do you wonder if you should disclose?

February 27, 2008 by Rosalind Joffe Leave a Comment

Figuring out whether to talk about your chronic illness to your boss seems to be the top issue that people wonder about. At least that’s what most journalists think. I’ve found that every time I am interviewed, inevitably one of the first questions I’m asked is : Should a person disclose? This past weekend, in Read More

Filed Under: Talking about it, Working for others, Working with chronic illness

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